Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Loving the Christmas season!

The D household is enjoying the holiday season.  I've always loved this time of year, but it's even more magical now that Parker is a toddler.  This post is going to be full of holiday pictures!

Parker is enthralled with Christmas trees - he points to them, says, "ho, ho, ho," and tries to say, "tree."  We stop and look at trees whenever we get the chance.
 
 



Our Christmas tree is pretty pitiful this year.  I didn't put up ornaments because I figured Parker and Murray would knock them off.  One of my two strands of lights is dead and the stores were sold out of the same kind when I tried to buy another strand, so it only has lights on the top half.  Parker doesn't care; he is in love with our tree anyway and always makes me turn it on in the mornings.  I finally found the star and put it on top yesterday which made Parker love it even more!
One strand of lights works
 
Our stockings are hung by the chimney with care.  There sure are a lot of them with 3 people and 5 cats living in this house!
We drive around looking at Christmas lights often.  Parker points to them and says, "ooohhhhh" and "ho, ho, ho."  We planned on decorating our house but hadn't gotten around to it due to bad weather and sickness in the household.  Even though it's just a week until Christmas, today I decided that we HAD to put something up since Parker loves it so.  We did a quick and dirty job - took less than an hour - but I am so glad we did!  Parker had fun "helping" and loves having his own decorations outside.
Helping
The bear and snowman are his favorites

Saved lots of time by not hanging lights

Parker likes seeing Santa in books and on his pjs, but he still doesn't want anything to do with the big guy in person.  However, that hasn't stopped him from trying out his empty chair a couple of times.
 
We went to a holiday party at Lily's house.  As always, Parker and Lily were adorable together.  They really do seem to like each other.

Kisses
Hugs
I really messed up with my Christmas cards this year.  First of all, getting a 16-month old to stay still for pictures, much less getting him to smile, requires patience and a whole lot of luck.  We weren't all that lucky, so the pictures for the card turned out so-so.  I waited until my sister visited last week to get a family picture, and by the time I got my card order in online, I was cutting it close for the cards to get to me before Christmas.  Right now, they are still "in production," and I am prepared to have to send them out after Christmas.  Why didn't I think to go to a local store and have them made there??!!  If you're expecting a card from us, we haven't forgotten you!  I'll send them as soon as I get them.

I'll close with a shout-out to my friend Stephanie.  This summer, she gave me an impressive number of boxes of hand-me-downs from her son.  Whenever Parker starts outgrowing his clothes and I begin to wonder what he's going to wear, I dig into her boxes and find a gold mine of nice, stylish clothes and lots of functional basics.  Those hand-me-downs make up at least 75% of Parker's wardrobe.  Thank you, Stephanie!

And another note about clothes: Parker is at the awkward stage between 12 and 18-month size clothes.  12-month clothes are getting too short, and 18-month clothes are long and baggy.  So if you see him walking around in high-waters or with his belly hanging out or tripping on the hem of his jeans, please don't judge!  We're doing our best!

I hope you're enjoying the holiday season.  Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

16 months and grateful

Parker is 16 months old today!
He is so goofy!
We had a nice Thanksgiving visiting Himal's mom.  9+ hours in the car with a toddler can be trying, so we drove mostly at night.  I did some major Black Friday shopping, so much so that my purchases wouldn't fit into Himal's mom's car and Himal had to bring the van to rescue me!  Unfortunately, it rained when we were planning on going to the beach.  Himal and I also had to endure awful football losses to our big, in-state rivals; that part of the holiday was brutal.
We are so thankful every day for our sweet little boy.  This year, we are also thankful because I AM GOING TO BE ABLE TO QUIT MY JOB!!!!!  While we will have to stick to a stricter budget, this is the best thing we could hope for.  If Parker were one of those kiddos who consistently napped for 3 hours each afternoon, working from home would be easier, but he's not, so it's not working for us.

For all of Parker's life, my weekdays have looked like this: wake up when Parker does (~7:00 or 7:30 AM); be a full-time mom all day; once Himal gets home after 5:00 PM, hang out as a family of three, eat supper, and give Parker a bath; put Parker to bed around 9:15 PM; do a chore or two; go into my home office and START working around 10:00 PM or so; work until after midnight.  Add in some nights when I have to get up with Parker, and I'm completely exhausted and never able to recuperate.  Poor Himal is stuck alone in the living room 5 nights a week.

We absolutely cannot wait to have normal couple time together and for me to have time to do chores and leisurely activities of my own in the evenings.  I will probably quit around the middle of January.  I am thrilled that Parker will have a well-rested mom during the days and that my nights won't be spent slaving away in my office.  I'm also excited that the house will be cleaner.  I'll also have more time to update the blog! 

I hope you had a good Thanksgiving!  Happy December!