Pregnancy is a very strange thing. The changes to your body are bizarre and
often uncomfortable, but I have truly enjoyed getting to experience it. Now that I’m in the home stretch, I’d like to
share some of the things that have helped make my pregnancy more pleasant.
Supportive partner – This is by far
the most important item on this list for me.
Himal has been 100% invested in our baby from the beginning. He has missed only 2 prenatal appointments, attended
childbirth classes with me and solo, educated himself on childbirth, taken on
more chores at home, been attentive to my needs, dealt with my aches and complaints,
emptied the cat litter boxes for 8+ months, cooked dinner, gone on maternity
clothes and baby gear shopping sprees, etc. with very few complaints. He loves our baby so much. Baby D is certainly blessed to have him as his
daddy, and I’m grateful to have him as a husband.
Heating pad – My best pregnancy purchase
was a heating pad. I have used it
practically every day for months to help with back pain. I didn’t buy anything fancy, just the
cheapest option available at Target, but when I walk in the door with an aching
back, which is a regular occurrence, there’s nothing better than sitting down
with my heating pad.
Blog/diary, weight chart, and monthly bump
pictures – This blog was Himal’s idea, and, in the beginning, I scoffed at
the idea and had no plans to post much.
He was originally going to keep up with it. Well….. you see how that turned out…. I’ve posted every week, and he has posted
only two or three times. Ha! It was intended to keep our families and
close friends updated on Little Man’s progress, but somehow we’ve gained a few
followers in several countries. Thank
you to all of you who have followed us along this journey; it means a lot to
us!
This blog has turned out to be an awesome
keepsake of all of the milestones we’ve experienced during this journey. We plan on printing the entire blog once
Little Man is born and storing it in his baby book. It’s cool to be able to look back and see
exactly when we learned the sex or when I started feeling Baby D move. Himal, thank you for forcing this blog on me.
In addition to the blog, I’ve kept a weekly
weight chart. It has been neat to watch
the weight gain, and this is also something that will go in the baby book.
Another cool keepsake is the monthly baby
bump pictures we took for the blog. We
enjoy looking through them and watching the bump grow.
Friends/relatives – Being able to discuss
pregnancy with friends and relatives who have experienced it has been
invaluable. In addition to helping me
know what to expect at different stages, they have provided me with great
advice on baby gear and raising children.
Thanks so much, everyone! And it’s
been really special to experience pregnancy with my friend Maggi; having a
close friend to exercise with and compare symptoms with as they are happening
has helped make pregnancy more enjoyable.
Belly lotion – While I can’t promise
that these products will prevent stretch marks, I recommend using these two
lotions/oils. I have used one in the
morning and the other at night almost every day since I found out I was
pregnant. Many women experience an itchy
belly as it stretches, and I feel like these two products have kept my itching
to a minimum. And maybe they reduced my
stretch marks; it’s really too soon to tell.
www.babycenter.com
– This website/app is a fabulous source of information on everything related to
pregnancy.
I have the app on my phone
and have checked the daily calendar every day.
It provides a countdown, advice, and education.
I highly recommend it!
Ultrasound pictures – Last but
certainly not least, these pictures of my sweet Little Man have gotten me
through the stressful parts of pregnancy/life.
I’ve had them saved on my phone and as the background on my computer at
work. Whenever life or work has gotten
me down, I’ve looked at his adorable face and felt blessed to be carrying
him. He reminds me that the stress is
only temporary and that everything will be worth it once he’s in my arms.